Best friends are amazing. When I think of the term “best friends,” I think of elementary school days when girls especially would argue over who was best friends with who. As you age, you realize best friends are much more than that. My best friends stick by me no matter what happens.
I met Megan at Edinboro University. We both went to Edinboro for numerous reasons, but the main benefit was the disability assistance programs that they offered. For instance, the 24/7 personal care was great! As we moved in, I passed her room a dozen times and decided to introduce myself when the parents went home. She lived 2 hours from school, and I lived 6 hours. We found out early we both liked to laugh. I’m not sure when we decided that we were best friends. I think it was a gradual understanding. We ate lunch and dinner together as often as our schedules allowed. Megan would hang out in my room and we’d laugh so much that we’d often get in trouble.
Megan has strong opinions but will allow you to have your own too. We disagree on many things, but it doesn’t matter; we must focus on enjoying hanging out together. Best friends don’t have to agree. We debate and discuss. We had our share of arguments but got over it and moved on. I know she has my back, and I have hers.
I wish we lived closer or we could teleport. We would have so much fun and see each other at least weekly. Maybe one day. I hope so.
If you’re lucky to have a best friend (or several,) here are a few pointers. Be honest, but tactful to others feelings. Support each other in every struggle. You don’t need to understand all of the details, but be there for them. Text, call and make sure to include them in plans. Megan and I live six hours away but include each other even though we know it’s impossible to attend.
