Author: Jessica Grono

Pre Kindergarten is now over because Jason has graduated Pre K and off to Kindergarten! It seems like yesterday that I took a nervous little four-year old into camp at his new school which then turned into pre Kindergarten. But, it was actually one year ago! Now I have a confident five year old who is ready for a new chapter of Kindergarten. Pre school days I sent Jason to our local YMCA preschool at age three.  I sent my daughter years before and loved it. She learned many things and made friends. But when Jason went, it wasn’t what I remember.…

Dating and relationships are something that many people want in life.  But with a disability such as cerebral palsy, dating can seem an astronomical task.  I have cerebral palsy which can lead to some challenges socially and romantically.  However, at a young age, I  set a goal to have a happy marriage, and I don’t give up on my goals.  Last night I remembered how difficult it is being single and have cerebral palsy.  My husband and I went to dinner and dancing.  With two children and jobs, finding time to have a date night isn’t easy. Prior to have…

Sometimes it’s just nice to get away from your everyday life. A new scenery and change of pace does wonders for a person’s state of mind. My husband and I enjoy traveling and exploring new areas. Last June, we went to Baltimore, Maryland for a weekend when we celebrated our wedding anniversary. We enjoyed our stay so much that we wanted to share the city with our children. Disability Travel As anyone with a disability knows, traveling is not the easiest. Since I have cerebral palsy, I need to plan accordingly and think ahead before going on a trip. Just…

April is a strange month for me based on my life journey. Spring, flowers, and warmer weather are all associated with April. A new beginning for many, but April had a profound push to bring me to a new beginning eleven years ago. My first husband committed suicide unexpectedly leaving me a single mother with cerebral palsy after years of abuse. I overcame, but those dark years will always be with me. I met my husband after graduating college and moving back to my home. He seemed to be the smartest guy I knew at that point of my life. I…

Homeschooling awareness month is celebrated in May. Homeschooling is increasing in popularity. It has grown nearly four percent in the last decade. Teaching children at home by parents, tutors or educators are all genuine techniques of homeschooling. Homeschooling is certainly not for everyone.  It takes commitment. Organization, environment, the right teacher and the tools are all needed. Keeping track of grades, curriculum and the records are all just a part of the job. For many children and their families, this choice is awesome and the correct choice for them. However, homeschooling is a case by case scenario and  not everyone…

Cerebral palsy affects speech patterns and how people speak. Not everyone has a speech impediment, but it’s safe to say that speech impediments are common for those with cerebral palsy. Unfortunately, I believe having a speech impediment is why I had difficulty keeping friends and being taken seriously by some adults when growing up. Even though I had speech therapy, I might have benefited from a little extra help. The Teachers College of Columbia University is trying to help children with cerebral palsy who have speech impediments.  The staff is currently seeking applications for this summer three-week free camp to help…

Laura, my daughter, has been asking for a pet of her own.  We have dogs and cats, but she wanted an animal of all to herself.  I hesitated because I wanted to be sure that she had enough maturity and responsibility.  In March, she turned eleven and a half and I felt she had what it takes to care for her pet. In many previous conversations, we discussed what kind of pet would be good for Laura to get.  I, of course, wanted her to have a beta fish since they’re easy to take care of. She didn’t want that.…

Summer will finally be returning after many of us had a long bitter cold winter. Each season has a different impact on cerebral palsy. Muscles react to cold and warm weather differently, and sometimes it’s difficult to know how to adjust or ease some of the muscle tension and spastic movements.  Since summer temperatures can last for a few months, it is best to learn how to adapt before muscles take over. On a day that seems pleasantly warm and humid, my body paints a different story. Humidity is my cerebral palsy nightmare.  My involuntary movements react by jerking my arms,…

Cerebral palsy affects everyone differently. The limitations in one person might be completely different than the other person. One symptom, however,  remains the same in people who have cerebral palsy. Muscles become difficult to control to some degree for the person with cerebral palsy. The muscles can either be stiff, too relaxed, involuntary movements or a combination of all of these. When actions aren’t under your control, sometimes things can happen that you don’t want and leave you embarrassed, frustrated or sorry. Apologizing becomes all too common. I mainly have athetoid cerebral palsy, but I also have a combination of…

Cerebral palsy is a physical disability that impacts the coordination and muscle tone. But, what about mental health with someone who has cerebral palsy? How does the physical impact of cerebral palsy affect the mental state? The Question Of Mental Health Several years ago, my attendant talked to me about her daughter who had cerebral palsy. She asked me if I ever took antidepressants for my mental health. At the time, I thought that this was a surprising question, but now I understand it a bit better.  By the way, no I have never took antidepressants for anything so far…