Acts of kindness is not a new concept. Most Americans grew up in a kind world where people loved and shared what they had with each other. As time went on, people became more distant and in their heads. But we still need kindness and love to make the world go around. I live to give acts of kindness because I don’t just have joy doing it but I see what the kindness does to others.
Kindness Ideas
Here are some examples of actions that anyone can do despite age of ability. I know others have so many ideas that are unique in your own way. We are called to love our neighbors as we love ourselves. The best way to love someone is by small acts of kindness. You have no idea what the impact of the smallest gesture can do. The smallest acts lead to huge love.
I love doing random acts of kindness. When someone returns with an act, I appreciate this more than anyone can realize. Helping others is one of the most happiest feelings that I know.
- Keep your friends close even if you disagree with them. If you don’t like something they say, tell them before cease your friendship and decide they aren’t a true friend. Discuss with people the issues so perhaps the problems can be fixed. Just cutting people out will never solve a problem. Everyone deserves respect especially our friends and family. Communication is key to having healthy friendships.
- Hold the door for others always. This simple act sounds disingenuous, but it is a gesture that says you care for someone else. Never allow a door to slam in someone’s face.
- Visit a friend or a family member. No greater love than spending time with a family member or friend. I love having company and conversations. Bring a treat or snack and talk.
- Tell your children that you love them every chance you can. I tell the, that I love them every chance I have. You never know when it is the last time and you’ll have no regrets saying I love you.
- Forgive someone. Forgiveness frees you of bitterness and gives everyone a new lease of life.
- Visit people in a nursing home or assisted living. One of my biggest fears is being alone in assisted living. Visit and help people in need.
- Be nice to your children – no more yelling, critical thinking, or physical punishment
- Stop complaining over ridiculous things
- Feed the birds. We have a bird feeder. What a wonderful way to help nature by providing them nutrients when it’s hard to find.
- Create Christmas cards for homeless, strangers and people in nursing homes
- Wash someone’s car. Surprised by a spouse from a clean vehicle is classy.
- Send someone flowers. I love flowers and what an amazing surprise this would be.
- Order door dash for someone for dinner
- Invite family over for no reason
- Order pizza for your neighbor
- Stay honest – Honesty shows respect and love. Dishonesty hurts people.
- Be respectful of all opinions
- Bake cookies for your family and friends
- Drop off gifts at a shelter or a random family
- Take a dog for a walk
- Smile – a lot!
- Help someone to decorate the house for the holidays
- Share happy, kind messages on social media
- Put kind notes in library books for people to find. Words of encouragement are the best.
- Play board games with others
- Bring back kindness rocks
- Hug someone but ask first
Love Matters in Kindness
- Donate toys and clothes . Clean out those closets and find something to donate.
- Donate diapers to friends, family or an organization
- Send a text to a friend or family members reminding them how amazing they are
- Cook dinner for someone going through a hard time
- Organize someone house
- Help someone who has a disability
- Stay off your phone in front of company
- Go to Church – Church brings peace to others because we are meant to be a community.
- Pray
- Call your parents
- Listen to someone going through a difficult time
- Fill bags with essentials and deliver them to homeless
- Donate dog food to a shelter or a neighbor with dogs
- Donate blankets to a shelter
- Volunteer at churches
- Offer to help babysit kids for free. Try not to ask, but say, “Hey, can I stay with your kids so you can go out?” Bonus – for free!
Best Act Of Kindness
I have been lonely and scared several times in my life. One act of kindness would have helped me very much. So, please remember to think about other people when you are at your lowest point. Praying for others can do remarkable things even if you can’t do anything physical to help. If you are capable of helping others, please try any of the suggestions above. Trust me – any act of kindness does not go unnoticed.
