Being a mother to a son is rewarding and exceptional. I’ve been a mom of a son for nine years. Motherhood has been crazy, funny, and loving. Not to say that it’s always been easy because it hasn’t. However, it’s the best position.
Having cerebral palsy means that I can’t do all the physical aspects that a son can need. So guilt is only natural, even if you can’t help it. So whenever I have feelings of guilt, I try to turn them back into positive ones.
If you can’t play baseball, it’s okay. You can sign your son up for a baseball team and be there for each game. Maybe you can’t play video games, but you can recommend the ones your son would like. Then, you can watch him, root for him, and be present.
My favorite memories with Jason have to do with laughter and being together. Although, of course, he wishes that I could walk and not have cerebral palsy. But he has a mom that teaches him, gives him a moral compass, laughs at his jokes, understands him more than anyone, and will do whatever it takes to keep him loved.
Jason is unique. He’s mature but playful. Jason knows the right thing to do and keeps us on track. He might not make straight A’s, but he will love you, be kind and always help you. Jason tries and wants to be a friend to anyone. He cares for animals, the environment, and every person.
Please don’t let anyone tell you that you can’t be a mother of a son. All they need is love and attention, plus patience. If your heart is into it, you can make an incredible mother.
