Styling my hair is fun! I went to have my hair colored, cut with some styling. A seemingly straightforward task for most can be somewhat tricky for me. Have you ever tried cutting hair on someone who can’t stop moving? I feel the difficulty in this for my hairstylist. I used to apologize for not being able to sit still constantly. But, in the last ten years or so, I realize this is me, and it’s their job to cut.
I try help the stylIng so they can cut my hair as efficiently as possible, though. Muscle relaxers help, not wearing heavy clothes, so I’m not overheated (heat makes spasms worse,) and a positive attitude. Today my hairstylist asked me if I was ever discriminated against by someone styling my hair. I paused and said, “Yes, but not blatantly.” No one said I’m not going to cut your hair because you’re in a wheelchair or have cerebral palsy.
However, some stylists did sigh, roll their eyes, or do the bare minimum. Their actions spoke more than their words. I felt annoyed and embarrassed for them. Styling should be enjoyable. Another time, I had a manicurist refuse even to try to do my nails because of my disability. I even asked if we could try it, and they refused.
I explained this all to my hairstylist today. She told me about a client that she had overweight and discriminated against at other salons. We are all paying customers that deserve to look good. Getting my hair cut and colored isn’t that different from anyone else except for extra patience in cutting. Also, good old communication helps in what works better for me or how they can help me relax. It doesn’t have to be a big deal. I love my hair
Thank you to all the hairstylists and those who work in the salon field and understand human decency.
